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Through menopause

Geneva

“I'd been led to believe it was the end.”

Véronique is 53. She says she became “transparent” in the space of two years. She came to find out whether it was true.

Véronique, 53 Geneva · The Experience Pass

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Véronique's final portrait, grey hair loose, looking straight ahead

“I didn't want to look younger. I wanted to be seen as I am now.”

Her day

In four images

From arrival to portrait.

Every Kaina day follows the same movement: arriving, talking, letting yourself be photographed, and leaving with an image that stands as proof.

Véronique looking at herself in a mirror, one hand on her cheek

8.45 am

The morning mirror

« Depuis deux ans, j'évitais mon propre regard dans la glace. Je ne sais pas exactement quand ça a commencé. »

Véronique laughing openly, head thrown back

11.40 am

Laughing again

« On a parlé de choses dont on ne parle pas. Et j'ai ri comme je n'avais pas ri depuis longtemps. »

Véronique in front of the lens, pushing back her grey hair with a smile

2.50 pm

Her hair, her decision

« La photographe m'a demandé si je voulais les attacher. J'ai dit non. C'était la première fois. »

Véronique's final portrait, grey hair loose, looking straight ahead

5.20 pm

What she took home

« Ma fille a pleuré en la voyant. Elle m'a dit : maman, c'est exactement toi. »

Her story

Véronique, 53

In her own words.

Véronique uses one precise word for the last two years: transparent. “In shops, in meetings, in the street. People look straight through you. And the worst part is that you end up looking through yourself too.”

She didn't come to be made to look younger. She said so straight away, almost fiercely: “If this is about making me look forty, I'm leaving.”

The morning's conversation was about what nobody talks about: a body that changes without warning, the sleepless nights, the way other people's eyes move elsewhere. And about anger — a great deal of anger.

When the shoot began, the photographer suggested she tie her hair back. Véronique said no. “It sounds like nothing. For me it was enormous. I'd spent two years trying to hide it.”

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